yui 597 Posted September 23 what's the biggest red flag you've seen on another person? the biggest green flag? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radio414 940 Posted September 24 On 9/23/2024 at 1:26 AM, yui said: what's the biggest red flag you've seen on another person? the biggest green flag? i don't think there's a faster way to lower my opinion of someone than the usage of slurs. i could be getting along fine with someone and then they'll drop an r-slur, for example, and i immediately feel myself drop to standoffish at best. and yeah, some of them might have an air of reclamation to them and i open myself to that discussion, but yeah. fastest i've become friends with people is through music. it doesn't have to even be music i like (though it helps when someone says "king gizzard and the lizard wizard" and you can point at each other from across the room), but it's a common enough shared experience that you can get people talking about recommendations even when they're otherwise antisocial. in high school i met one of my best friends because they were humming jonathan coulton songs in math class. i got a handle on another person's personality by finding out they liked hyperpop fine but not 100 gecs. the list goes on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LordCowCow 878 Posted September 28 Would you rather have a silver tongue or a golden voice? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
radio414 940 Posted September 30 On 9/28/2024 at 4:49 PM, LordCowCow said: Would you rather have a silver tongue or a golden voice? implying i don't already have both silver tongue, i think, i think saying the exact right thing has basically the same effect as saying things that sound good. maybe that's naive of me but i want to hold on to little hopes, you know? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
